Wednesday, 10 December 2008

• What's the deal with the scarcity of white guy/ black girl couples?

  Trust me I am not the angry black girl with the chip on her shoulder by any stretch of the imagination that thinks that white girls are stealing the black men. I don't care have at them! I have long since come to the conclusion that I prolly won't marry inside my race anyway, so I am not jealous. In fact you ladies make me smile because at least you're not scared.
  
  I just saw this featured post about the abundance of white guy/asian girls and saw the responses she got about her inquiry and thought I'd try it out to see if I could get a better understanding of it all.
  
  What is it about black girls/women that white guys (and maybe I should extend this to every race of guy outside of the black community, because you don't see a black girl/ other guy combo much at all) seem to be repulsed at the thought of being attracted to them and/or dating them? And I'm talking about decent black women because you do have your sour lot in every shade. I mean I'm not sure if its the color or not, because I've seen white guys date asian, hispanic or latinas, indian (american, east, or west), or a black girl with some kind of a mixture. I mean really are we that unattractive?
  
  My friend's ex bf told her once when they were dating that I was very attractive, for a black girl. WOW WOW WOW!?!???!!!! Why am I only attractive within my own race, but to be compared with others outside of it, I don't come close? As my friend Liz would say, "Vile."
  
  What's frustrating is when I've gotten along really well with a white guy, but they date girl after girl who is the same race as him, but is not what he is entirely looking for. What's funny is when they mention all the qualities that I possess that they like, but they aren't interested in me.
  
  Sometimes that's a little hard to swallow because even though they don't say it, you know why they aren't interested in you, and its the one thing you can't change about yourself. So how about it guys? What's the deal? Inquiring minds would like to know. What stereotypes have you heard about us that have you running for the hills?

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• Hi everyone! I'm just getting started on Datingish... Drop me a comment if you've got some ideas on what to do first - or just to say, "Hi!"

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